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Well, nonnie, it’s a little complicated, but I’ll try to explain.
I met Bae about six months ago. Very soon after that I developed a crush on her, but she was taken. As per usual with this sort of situation, I tried to push the feelings down and move on.
But the problem is that, even through crushes on other people, the crush on Bae still stuck. It wouldn’t go away, and so I finally went to a mutual friend of ours and confessed to the feelings to get it off my chest. She encouraged me to just tell Bae so I wouldn’t keep it bottled up inside.
So, I confessed my feelings to her, only to discover she’d started developing feelings for me too. The problem, of course, being that she was still taken and still loved her girlfriend at the time. This is always a scary situation because usually most people have moved on from who they’re with when they start falling for someone else but she hadn’t, which, as someone who is polyamorous, I understood far too well.
She immediately asked her girlfriend about the possibility of polyamory, to which she denied, being monogamous. Which is understandable, if you’re monogamous you can’t force yourself to be polyamorous, just like if you’re polyamorous you can’t force yourself to be monogamous.
But the feelings didn’t go away and things got complicated (especially when friends of hers started telling her to stop talking to me altogether…that was scary to hear about, I must admit).
I finally brought up the point that we need to do what’s best for Bae because if friends were making her feel bad over this then we needed to reach some conclusion that worked for everyone, especially since if she truly turned out to be polyamorous, this wouldn’t be the last time this situation would come up. And that gets painful, I know from experience.
In the end, her girlfriend broke up with her, and it was emotional for a while, still is sometimes, and I gave her space to decide what she wanted in the end. She decided to officially get with me after that ((when I’m on my computer, I’ll look up the exact date for you, nonnie)) and I’ve been supporting her through the tough times as best I can.
And if anyone decides to speak ill will towards her or make her feel bad for what happened, they’ll have to answer to me.
My Bae Bae doesn’t deserve to be hurt, and I’ll do my best to make sure she never is again.
That point you know without a doubt you truly care about her above all else:
You try to help her with math homework on a subject you haven’t looked at in over five years and give up doing rp replies to do so.
The hell have you done to me, woman?
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